This is the fourth and final part of a series which reviews each of “domain” of BDSM. To review, in Part One I introduced the notion that I have found there are often three thematic groupings of activity, or Domains, within … Read More
This is the third part of a series which reviews each of “domain” of BDSM. To review, in Part One I introduced the notion that I have found there are often three thematic groupings of activity, or Domains, within most … Read More
This is the second part of a series which reviews each of “domain” of BDSM. To review, in BDSM Domains – Part One I introduced the notion that I have found there are often three thematic groupings or Domains within … Read More
The purpose of this article on BDSM Domains is to draw attention to one very common challenge many people run into when exploring BDSM. This is especially true of the first few years when facing a confusing array of terms, … Read More
We are living in a time where there is a major culture change in the scene. The essence of this paradigm shift, in this authors humble opinion, stems from a change in values and priorities. Previously, the BDSM culture possessed … Read More
I have been to a good many munches in my time. Most of these have been very open, welcoming, and usually unstructured. The result was that sometimes these were really great experiences in getting to know a local community with … Read More
I have become greatly disturbed by the lack of good ethics within the scene or BDSM lifestyle. I am horrified by the cruel and selfish needs of those who engage in predatory behavior, and those who excuse or defend it. … Read More
Continued from “Your Kink is Not My Kink, Pt.1” Learning Tolerance Learning to become more tolerant is a practice. It requires not only sitting with one’s own discomfort, but learning to look at how we engage with others. Let’s … Read More
…And That’s Okay… or is it? In a culture of sub-cultures and sub-sub-cultures, tolerance is often expected and part of our value system. It should be obvious that not everyone is into the same thing. We understand this in theory, … Read More
This is part 2 of 2 in the series on sub-space and top-space as altered states of consciousness. Part One of this 2-part series provided an overview of terms used and described common experiences in these altered states of consciousness. … Read More