A common question for those new to BDSM and kink activities is about sub-space and top-space, the altered states of consciousness experienced in scenes and play. This post is designed to address the majority of questions I’ve been asked over … Read More
When we’re looking to start a new relationships, we often feel vulnerable, so talking about BDSM can be a difficult thing to do. When we’re seeking new relationships, many are afraid to say or do the wrong thing that can … Read More
Do you need some quick and kinky ideas to spice up tonight? Try these suggestions without having to run around in a panic or spend too much cash. Most of these ideas can be found at local discount chain retailers … Read More
Introduction No one is born knowing everything, especially social rules and etiquette. We all must learn through what others impart to us, through our self-education, and through our experiences. This is never more true than in BDSM. There are so … Read More
How BDSM fosters personal growth, awareness, and self improvement… Within recent months there has been some press regarding psychology research that shows how practitioners of BDSM can have a healthier life outlook and mental resiliency than their non-practicing counterparts. The … Read More
Introduction In honor of National Breast Cancer Awareness Month, we present this post on “Breast Health and BDSM”. The purpose of this article is to provide some information about BDSM and breast health and mitigating possible risks. It is not … Read More
If you have determined that you are just too alternative, experimental, or kinky for “regular” or vanilla folks, the mind turns to meeting new people. The purpose of this article is to give some helpful pointers in dating within the … Read More
The below are some typical questions or worries most newbies are concerned with when exploring BDSM. Rest assured, everyone has questions. While these are far from the only questions people ask, they are very common ones. Is wanting what I … Read More
Introduction Something that has come back to my attention as of late is the topic of social skills, especially in the BDSM community. To clarify, what I mean is peoples’ levels of awareness in what are, generally speaking, good practice … Read More
The 7 Treasures is my collection or Keys to successful practice in BDSM, and are just as valid outside the lifestyle as within. These are sourced in part through experience, observation, and consolidating common denominators of SSC, RACK, and The … Read More