For those interested in power exchange relationships, it’s not uncommon to hear about the use of various postures as part of the training of a submissive or slave. In this writing we will examine the different kinds of postures or … Read More
What is a Personal Valet, and how does that apply to Service? First off, it’s more than someone just parking your car, which is the typical association with the word in the USA. It’s also not just a tray that … Read More
When we choose to develop a connection, all parties must feed it so that it remains healthy, living, and vital. It cannot be emphasized enough how important that all parties are Giving towards the relationship which is (A) according to … Read More
Continuing our series “The Voice of the submissive” is this offering on Empowerment by soumise. Of particular note is how empowerment of submissives and slaves fosters trust and informed consent, which deepens submission in a power exchange relationship, or threatens … Read More
We are proud to present the first in our series “Voice of the submissive” regarding the topic of connecting during acts of Service. One of the primary reasons why some find Service so satisfying is the level of Connection. Whether … Read More
For all those Masters, Mistresses, Owners, and general D-types out there: You wanted a service slave or submissive, someone that would cater to your needs and wishes, someone that would Give just to please you. After searching, you finally have … Read More
The use of Contracts in BDSM and Power Exchange relationships seems to be a surprisingly charged and polarizing subject. Indeed, there are those that love ’em or hate ’em, but rarely does there seem to be any indifference. Because I espouse … Read More
Introduction In my prior post on Sexual Objectification Pt.1 I provided a high level introduction to what it is, why people do it, and some things to think about in terms of starting your exploration. In this Part 2 writing … Read More
Introduction In this post I will be sharing a preview of a workshop I’m giving to a few events on sexual objectification & training. In this instance we are defining sexual objectification fairly literally, that being (a) the act of … Read More
Introduction Pet play is a form of role-play in various BDSM, D/s and other kink practices. This can be engaged in within a given scene, but is more commonly found as an aspect of D/s and other power exchange relationships. … Read More