Let this story begin like many others, with “Once upon a time…” I had an in-depth conversation about the often conflicting nature of various lifestyles and relationship dynamics. At that time I saw some fundamental differences between polyamory and power exchange … Read More
Relationship dynamics such as D/s and poly are additional layers atop “vanilla” relationships, demanding skills that often go above and beyond the fundamentals issues found in basic relationships. In fact they often create far more problems than many believe they … Read More
When we choose to develop a connection, all parties must feed it so that it remains healthy, living, and vital. It cannot be emphasized enough how important that all parties are Giving towards the relationship which is (A) according to … Read More
The dangers of desperation are many, but often have much in common in their source. Its my goal to explore the topic of desperation and perhaps provide some tools to recognize it and help fight it. As per usual, this … Read More
For all those Masters, Mistresses, Owners, and general D-types out there: You wanted a service slave or submissive, someone that would cater to your needs and wishes, someone that would Give just to please you. After searching, you finally have … Read More
Over the years I have interacted with a wide range of individuals and partners in a variety of relationship models. This experience affords me a unique perspective that I’m hoping the reader will find valuable in supplementing their own exploration. … Read More
Do you need some quick and kinky ideas to spice up tonight? Try these suggestions without having to run around in a panic or spend too much cash. Most of these ideas can be found at local discount chain retailers … Read More
BDSM can seem abusive to outsiders not knowing that THE key difference is that every activity must be mutually consensual. A challenge I’ve seen time and time again is that even those within the lifestyle can forget this simple fact. Worse, that … Read More
It seems rare that submissives are willing to step up and share their voice to a broader audience. I am very happy to present a submissive’s perspective on the Appeal of the Lifestyle, which in this case refers to the benefits … Read More
Something that seems to come up often is the struggle some have with being honest about their intentions. Whether for just play or long-term relationships, be it exclusive or poly, this theme comes up time and time again. The purpose … Read More